Ipadikku Rose- 24 4 2008
Friday, April 25th, 2008
The most ridiculous thing I have heard is calling some one as a guest and keeping her outside because you do not like her dress, and that too by a college. They should have done their homework before deciding on her as their speaker. And after she turns up, being so undiplomatic surely lessens the caliber of the administrators of that college. Loyola College is a college of repute and this is a mar on their repute. But this incident which happened four months ago, gave Rose the reason to host a show regarding dress code in colleges. But citing this incident and female emancipation as reasons to do away with dress code is even more ridiculous.
Leena Manimekalai’s boycott is the best answer for a self-respecting free woman of a democratic country, but whether dress code in colleges is necessary or not, is an entirely different issue. She could have been magnanimous by accepting the sentiments of the college and then registered her protests, but then this program by Rose would not have occurred. Now lets hear her argument. What can you learn in a college, which does not give freedom of your choice even in dress- she asks? Madam the most broadminded are not the naked, nor are all burkha clad narrow minded. Dress has very less to do with the mind. A bearded intellect in the show also opined why opinions of the students are not collected and whether any data is there to prove that academic excellence increases with dress restrictions. Ridiculous.
The dress code in colleges is neither to improve academics nor to downplay females. Females unlike men have many ups and downs and curves and bends in their structure and right from top to bottom of them is seductive for any normal man. A college is supposed to be a temple for wisdom and a higher school of learning, were the only focus should be to prepare for future. I am sure females do not need a college to prepare themselves what to wear in the competitive world outside. And a freedom to dress or undress by their choice is not the only way to enlarge the mind.
Not very long ago colleges in Chennai were packed mostly by the city bred but now it is a mix and more from the outside. After more than a dozen years in a uniformed school atmosphere they walk in to college mainly for higher education. Dress should be secondary for them. It is also a very delicate age- peak of teen. Some are from an ultra modern stratum and many are from a conservative background. Students are from different faiths and social strata. So it is wise in such circumstances to have a dress code to avoid unpleasenteries. Flaunting your wardrobe should not be in your list of priorities here. There is always a future to do so, so why the big fuss?
She and the psychiatrist opined why should men look below and not the face? Madam if they do not look below then they all must be ‘Rose’- no offence intended. Shalini was correct that even a presence of a female would be a biological disturbance to a male that too in his high teen. So if dressed improper where will his mind be? In the program both shalini and Leena were dressed well, decent and not provocative. Inspite of no dupatta I did not find their dress provocative. But without rules to expect the same from all will not be possible. Though dressed in sari, Rose looked more seductive than the rest so when shalini questioned, why only salwar and Saree and not pant & shirt? Makes some sense. However to avoid a sudden culture shock and to reduce subjectivity the colleges must have chosen those dresses. And also if the top is heavy and large, a shirt would look very distractive and a salwar can use a dupatta for any size. So I do not find anything wrong in the dress code and these females should become broad-minded to see this.
If you see any western website or magazine or journal, you will see many surveys and research papers on psychology almost week after week. They do intensive search on the mind, while in India all we do is using these text to look at us. That is why I loathe the Indian psychiatrists because they try to look Indians in a western perspective. May be a call center employee will fit the bill not komala valli or arumugam from down south. Shalini surely knows her subject but has she made enough attempts to understand ‘The Indian’.
Periyar told females to wear shirts. Well may be but not necessary in a college. She can and may be she should in the outside. A strong male should get used to any kind of female and all kind of their dresses in the college itself so that he can be more confident outside, and vice versa can be a sound argument but I think our society should homogeneously mature to that level. It will some day, but till then let the codes exist.
The principal conducted herself very well and she was the best. The politician was outnumbered but firm in her words. Rose coordination was very good, as always. I never knew when it ended and still unsure whether the next episode is a continuation.
7/10 for the week.




















































